“Who do I choose between my wife and love-child?”


Source: Reddit
My wife and I have a son(17M) together. 16 years ago I was drunk and I slept with another woman which resulted in another child(16F). My wife forgave me but she made it clear that she doesn’t want to be anywhere near my daughter. I have my daughter every other weekend and my wife would just go to her parents home every time she is with me.

A few days ago we were going out with my extended family and my daughter was also invited but her mom wasn’t invited. She asked me if I could give her a ride and I said yes but when my wife found out she said that while she doesn’t have a problem with my daughter being there she doesn’t want her to come with us. I tried to change her mind but I couldn’t so I asked both my brothers if either of them would bring my daughter with them. They both said yes so I called my daughter and told her I have some problem and asked her to come with one of her uncles and she said it’s ok

Well we went there and both my brothers came and my daughter wasn’t with either one of them. They both said that my daughter told them she is going with the other one

I called her and her mom and all her friends but no one knew where she was so everyone just left to search for her and after a few hours my son found her. I was so mad at her I yelled at her and told her how she made us all worried. I took away her car(that I bought for her) as a punishment

Her mom has been calling me, saying I’m an a**hole and demanding I give her car back Am I Acting As A Jerk.?